How a True Home Should Look Like

As a Guy, you should be able to
*cook your food yourself.
*Wash your cloth yourself, or better still take it to laundry and pay for it.
*You should learn to do dishes yourself.
*You should be comfortable to mop your own house.

Do not let anyone make you believe 'cause you ain't comfortable with chores anymore, and considering you have 8.am to 6pm Job, you are ready to get Married. No bro.. if you can't handle yourself you won't be able to handle another person. It's simple like that!

Doing things for yourself should be normal for you as a guy.
Some of us want to settle down cause we want someone (a woman) that'd cook, wash and take care of the house for us. Not really because we need a partner.

Some of us have wrong ideas of a good home. We think PAPA should come back from Work, shower, and go straight to the sitting room. and should not be disturbed by anyone.

While MAMA will be in the kitchen, and from kitchen she'd get children's stuff ready for the next day and washing of school uniform, to ironing it, to almost everything; she's directly involved. And the man will just be there in the sitting room or probably dash out to get some bottles, then return home sleepy and tired.

That's the picture some of us have of an ideal home. But it's WRONG!

I think marriage is mainly for companionship.
If you believe that, then why would you want a companion stressed, stretched everyday in the name of a Good wife?

If you want a wife that'd be taking care of the house for you. washing, cleaning, and preparing kids for school everyday, then you go for what you want. It's your choice.

 But If you want a wife you would love, admire, assist in some chores, do different things with, and love for the rest of your life, then go for it.
Still your choice...

Don't get married because you feel you're too old to do your own chores.
Get married because you want a partner and a soul mate so as to multiply and replenish the earth and because you're ready to allow another PERSON into your PRIVATE LIFE.