The Woman a Man Needs

Don't be a woman that needs a man.
Be a woman a man needs.
-Anonymous

There's a big difference between the two women in the quote above. One is desperately looking for a man while the other is busy becoming the woman a man desperately looks for and wants to make his bride.

To become a woman a man needs,

1. Pursue Purpose

A woman a man needs is one who is always about her life's pursuits. She is busy honing her prowess on what she can do best. Breaking grounds and gaining mastery in her field.
Her skills illuminates her uniqueness which makes her attractive.

Remember proverbs 31 woman, "she considers a field and buys it."

Go ahead and pursue that God given purpose you possess. Take that master class, go for that training. Take that job. Make your life interesting. That's what every man needs.

2. Be a good cook

Believe me when I say, "men are sensory creatures, they love to have their taste bud tickled."

Cooking good food reveals your femininity and it can afford you a Range Rover .

The way to a man's heart is his stomach. So, go get that cookbook, browse on it, get training. Be a woman who serves variety. Every man needs an excellent cook.

3. Love God

Every man needs a God chaser for a wife no matter how ungodly he may seem. Spirituality is always a paramount requirement for most men.

Scripture says "a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised."

Whatsoever you do, let the presence of God envelope you.

It is the aura that keeps you glowing.