"Happiness" Is The Way... By MrFirdance
There is obviously no road to happiness; Happiness is the way itself!
Too many people think of happiness as the ultimate goal of life. But, if you're waiting for happiness to arrive then it's likely that it never will!
You convince yourself that life will be happy when you're married.
When the mortgage is paid off.
When you have children.
When the weekend arrives.
Or perhaps, by next summer.
Whatever particular dream you have, you're sure that when you reach it you'll finally be happy.
Unfortunately, this way of thinking is a trap! You're always wanting something more, always looking forward to a time when you'll be happy. And, if you fall into this trap, you'll never reach that goal.
When you get married, you might wish your partner was more affectionate or more proactive. When you have children, you might find their young age restrictive and long for them to grow up too quickly. When you've paid off that mortgage you might long for a better house, a better neighbourhood, a better car.
Life will pass you by with that goal of happiness forever in sight but never quite in reach.
Happiness should not be your life's goal, it should be your life and the only time to be happy is right now. It's state of mind, not a set of accomplishments or the accumulation of material things.
There is no time to achieve happiness other than right now.
Thinking of the future and having aspirations is essential to leading a happy and fulfilled life. The trick is not to let thoughts of the future overshadow your enjoyment of the present and the appreciation of the things
and people you have in your life right now!
Stop waiting to meet your soulmate, to get married, to have children, to pay off your mortgage. For Friday night, for pay day, for the summer time.
Stop waiting for happiness to arrive and simply decide to be happy! It's not some great goal or destination, it's a journey and a way of life. Why not try it out today?
#Work like you don't need money.
#Love like you've never been hurt.
#And dance like no one's watching!
Victor Firdance is a Relationship Coach, He writes about Marriage and Relationship. He's a born Leader and a Social Humane.
He is set out to making a difference in the era of Mending Relationship..
You can reach him via vicwillz5678@gmail.com or
on Facebook, Victor Willz Firdance.
Too many people think of happiness as the ultimate goal of life. But, if you're waiting for happiness to arrive then it's likely that it never will!
You convince yourself that life will be happy when you're married.
When the mortgage is paid off.
When you have children.
When the weekend arrives.
Or perhaps, by next summer.
Whatever particular dream you have, you're sure that when you reach it you'll finally be happy.
Unfortunately, this way of thinking is a trap! You're always wanting something more, always looking forward to a time when you'll be happy. And, if you fall into this trap, you'll never reach that goal.
When you get married, you might wish your partner was more affectionate or more proactive. When you have children, you might find their young age restrictive and long for them to grow up too quickly. When you've paid off that mortgage you might long for a better house, a better neighbourhood, a better car.
Life will pass you by with that goal of happiness forever in sight but never quite in reach.
Happiness should not be your life's goal, it should be your life and the only time to be happy is right now. It's state of mind, not a set of accomplishments or the accumulation of material things.
There is no time to achieve happiness other than right now.
Thinking of the future and having aspirations is essential to leading a happy and fulfilled life. The trick is not to let thoughts of the future overshadow your enjoyment of the present and the appreciation of the things
Stop waiting to meet your soulmate, to get married, to have children, to pay off your mortgage. For Friday night, for pay day, for the summer time.
Stop waiting for happiness to arrive and simply decide to be happy! It's not some great goal or destination, it's a journey and a way of life. Why not try it out today?
#Work like you don't need money.
#Love like you've never been hurt.
#And dance like no one's watching!
MEET THE WRITER
Victor Firdance is a Relationship Coach, He writes about Marriage and Relationship. He's a born Leader and a Social Humane.He is set out to making a difference in the era of Mending Relationship..
You can reach him via vicwillz5678@gmail.com or
on Facebook, Victor Willz Firdance.
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